Looking For God?

A fifteen-year-old boy asked me a straightforward theological question that is difficult to answer, “I’ve been looking for God. Where is He…?”

His phrase, “I’ve been looking for…” reminded me of an experience:

When I misplaced my favorite sign pen, I searched for it in my bedroom and in my office. I searched in my tables, drawers, the pockets of my pants and polo. I searched in places where I think I can find my sign pen, but I never searched the ceiling, nor my toolbox, nor the toilet. Why? Because I knew I would never find my sign pen there. I would have to look for my pen in the right places.

When I’m looking for something important, I don’t look in the wrong places. So when somebody tells me that he’s looking for something, my first instinct is to think whether that person is looking at the right places. Otherwise, I would feel that he won’t find what he’s looking for.

God, however, is not like my sign pen that when misplaced, cannot be found in the wrong places. Yet, like everything else, when we start looking for Him, our own perspective plays a very powerful and definitive role. Somehow, He allows himself to be subjected to our assumptions.

In academic research, we start with basic assumptions. In search of an invisible God, we do the same. Aren’t our attitudes serve as our assumptions when we are looking for God? They are the lenses we put in our eyes. Can’t we recall all the happy moments, all the blessings, and joy and then ask ourselves whether God has nothing to do with those favors?

Or do we look through our pains and hurts, through calamities, wars, famines, and other human suffering, and then tauntingly declare that God is nowhere to find? Where are we looking at? What lens are we using?

The Power of Perspective

If I want to see something far, I would use a telescope. If I want to see objects so tiny that naked eyes can’t see, I would use a microscope.

I remember the first time I bought a pair of polarized sunglasses. The sales lady asked me to look at an image without wearing any glasses. She asked me what I saw. I said, “I see trees beside the sea, and then skies above.” Then she had me put the polarized sunglasses and look again at the same image she showed me earlier. I was amazed, suddenly I saw the dolphins. From that experience I learned that there are images that we can see through polarized glasses that we can’t with ordinary glasses.

Our basic paradigm is our lens. We see things through it. Yet its powerful enough to see the not easily seen images. The state of our heart in the moment of our search for God, whether we are happy, bitter, afraid, troubled, or angry, our predominant attitude at play when we are looking for God are powerful—very powerful.

Lenses are powerful enough to deceive us. When I was young, I always laugh at my grandmother when she was looking for her reading glasses and couldn’t find it, only to realize after few minutes of search that the reading glasses were on her eyes—she’s wearing it. She couldn’t see it. But she saw everything through it.


I didn’t give the boy an all-knowing wise answer; I don’t have one. Instead I asked him more questions, “Are you looking for God? Where?” What do you expect to find? What lens are you using in looking for Him, the lens of pain, bitterness, anger, resentment…or the lens of happiness, contentment, peace, and blessings? If in case you found Him, are you ready to face Him?

10 thoughts on “Looking For God?

    1. Hello June, sorry for very late reply!
      You’re right, when that boy asked me this, I never stopped thinking…not about the answer but about the question itself…and the reason why we ask.

      Thanks a lot! 🙂

  1. I appreciate your thoughts in this post. Some people who look for God don’t find Him, and I think the reason can sometimes be that they weren’t really looking! Instead, they were looking for excuses to not believe. Are you looking for God or looking for excuses?

    Another good point you make is “Can’t we recall all the happy moments, all the blessings, and joy and then ask ourselves whether God has nothing to do with those favors? Or do we look through our pains and hurts, through calamities, wars, famines, and other human suffering, and then tauntingly declare that God is nowhere to find?” – I’ve pondered this before myself. When bad things happen we can be so quick to blame God or cry out “why?”. Yet, when life is going well, we so often don’t even think of God. We fail to see it as God’s grace and favor. Perhaps we should also cry out “why?” about all the good in our life too…

    1. Hello Laura,
      Sorry for this late reply, I have been traveling (attending meetings and planning) a lot—too busy.I like the way you expressed it, “They were looking for excuses NOT to believe.” Sometimes I’m guilty of this too. But not about the existence of God, but about his providence.

    1. Hello Char, sorry for replying late—was too busy at work.
      You know children’s innocent questions can really stretch and challenge adults’ fundamental paradigm. They are really good teachers. 🙂

  2. Great answer you gave him. Maybe with a different perspective, he’d see God all around him? God is a difficult concept, even for some adults. Believing without proof (i.e., something you see with your own eyes, or hold in your hands) can be difficult in today’s world, which is full of illusions. I hope the boy finds what he’s looking for.

    1. Hey Janna! 🙂

      “Believing without proof” — we normally call that action as “faith.” I think that is what the boy needs to learn…to have faith, especially in “today’s world.”

      Thanks for stopping by!
      God bless you! 🙂

  3. God is always here. People often look for their version of God rather than seeing Him in the small and the ordinary. They put Him in a box when He is everywhere. We need not necessarily open our eyes but our heart.

    1. Hi! I like your phrase “version of God”! that’s true.
      How often we box God by defining Him according to our limited personal experience.

      Thanks suzicate for dropping by and sharing your thought! 🙂

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